[Personal Reflections] A Parent's Child

Looking at my parents’ silver hair and the lines the years have carved into their faces, my heart aches. After starting university, aside from a brief stint at home during military service, I’ve always been away — studying far from home, and now working even farther. Though I’ve never said it out loud, there’s a small knot of guilt that stays with me. I hope my parents live peacefully, healthily, and happily. That is my greatest wish for them.

I am my father’s son. Documented observations:

  1. Says one thing, means another!
  2. Quietly does caring things for family — but never says so!
  3. Always tucks feelings of guilt away inside.
  4. Sometimes inexplicably raises his voice. …more to be discovered

I am my mother’s son. Documented observations:

  1. Scatterbrained. Always forgetting things.
  2. Sometimes doesn’t read the situation well.
  3. Dozes off when tired. …more to be discovered

Why are they all flaws…? I honestly don’t know what the strengths are. Family members always see the flaws — and magnify them! Today visiting Grandma, I chatted with my uncle for a bit. When I asked how my younger cousin was doing in school, he immediately proved it. In his mind, not a single one of the kids was good. XD


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