[Personal Reflections] A Parent's Child

Looking at my parents' silver hair and the lines the years have carved into their faces, my heart aches. After starting university, aside from a…

Looking at my parents’ silver hair and the lines the years have carved into their faces, my heart aches. After starting university, aside from a brief stint at home during military service, I’ve always been away — studying far from home, and now working even farther. Though I’ve never said it out loud, there’s a small knot of guilt that stays with me. I hope my parents live peacefully, healthily, and happily. That is my greatest wish for them.

I am my father’s son. Documented observations:

  1. Says one thing, means another!
  2. Quietly does caring things for family — but never says so!
  3. Always tucks feelings of guilt away inside.
  4. Sometimes inexplicably raises his voice. …more to be discovered

I am my mother’s son. Documented observations:

  1. Scatterbrained. Always forgetting things.
  2. Sometimes doesn’t read the situation well.
  3. Dozes off when tired. …more to be discovered

Why are they all flaws…? I honestly don’t know what the strengths are. Family members always see the flaws — and magnify them! Today visiting Grandma, I chatted with my uncle for a bit. When I asked how my younger cousin was doing in school, he immediately proved it. In his mind, not a single one of the kids was good. XD


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